Work it out with kindness and consideration
He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, But he who is impulsive exalts folly. (Proverbs 14:29 NKJV)
A tongue out of control
Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. he tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one's life on fire. (James 3:5-6 NIV)